Lace up for diversity

2015 has been a big year for Support U, and it looks like the run up to Christmas will be the busiest time yet. Were kick off the festive season with the very exciting news that Support U has been selected as an official local charity for the 2016 Reading Half Marathon. Last year over 13,000 runners took part in the 2015 Half Marathon and next year you could join them.

‘This is a great opportunity for Support U to be involved with an event that brings all of Reading together.  We can’t wait for the marathon weekend and hope you will join us in supporting our Support U half marathoners.’ – Nick Musson Engagement Manager.

If you are interested in running the Reading Half Marathon on April 3rd 2016 in aid of Support U, then we would love to hear from you. To guarantee your place within the Half Marathon, we ask that you raise at least £250 for the charity before 1st March 2016.

To register for one of these 10 places, sign up here  Support U – Reading Half Marathon Registration

For more information about the marathon make sure to check out their website.- readinghalfmarathon.com

Pride Of Place

Leeds Beckett University and Historic England are teaming up with local community groups across the country to highlight historic LGBTQ locations, buildings and spaces. The aim of the project is to explore and celebrate LGBTQ heritage and how it relates to our national history. They’re looking for the public’s help on this project to get a full picture of LGBTQ heritage.

You can add your own pins to the map below. Maybe you know a piece of forgotten history, or even want to champion a local LGBTQ organisations?

Here’s the map of Reading as it looks now. We’ve added a couple (Including some shameless self promotion!). Take a few minutes of your time to have a look and add a pin so we can appreciate the breadth and impact of LGBTQ heritage on a national scale.

Add a location to the map.

Now open ’till late

Being able to share exciting news from Support U is one of my favourite things to write about, and it’s fair to say we’ve enjoyed our share of positive experiences this year.

As Chairman, part of my role is to work with our teams to make sure we’re really focused on being accessible to anyone who needs help with LGBT issues, that includes having the right online resources, through to creating the right atmosphere from our drop-ins.

One of the things we’ve observed since we launched in 2011 is a change to how people access our services. We’ve seen our clients needing access to support later in to the day, which traditionally would be 9 – 5.

Operating a staffed support service is challenging for any volunteer-lead organisation, especially the evenings. Our team of volunteers has steadily increased over the last 12 months, and with thanks to their hard work:

  • We’ve extended the opening hours for our telephone helpline to 10pm Monday to Friday.
  • We’ve also increased our volunteer capacity to offer later drop-in sessions Tuesday and Thursday until 8pm.

We’re available via telephone on 0118 321 9111, alternatively pop in to 15 Castle Street.

Thank you to our wonderful team of volunteers who make these things possible, as the South-East’s most available LGBT resource service.

Why we can’t drop the T.

So things for the trans* community in the West have already been set at a low this month. Starting with collapse of the HERO ordinance in Texas, dubbed the ‘bathroom bill’ by the Christian Right to propagate the myth that trans* women want access to misuse female bathrooms. Yet whilst that external attack has been continuing, surprisingly there has also been internal unrest following the near-unanimous rejection of the film ‘Stonewall’ last month by LGBT+ audiences.

A petition on Change.org was created titled ‘Drop the T’, carrying with it a description that claims trans* individuals to be violent, counter-progressive and even abusive to children. Accusations that the trans* community ‘abuses’ gay men and women in calling out their transphobia/ignorance would be laughable, were they not immediately followed by assertions that this often led to the rape of cis-women by trans* individuals. A narrative which is one we had hoped to have buried, at least in the LGBT+ community as the theories of Janice Raymond that ‘trans* women used their gender identity to invade female safe spaces and partake in covert rape’ had faded into obscurity. She would then go on to reference herself in a report which was then used to deny trans* individuals in the US access to health care both public and private. Unsurprisingly this was the second point raised, i.e. the supposed infringement of women’s rights by allowing all women access to the same services. (Wrap your head around that one!). The petition starter then goes on to claim that it was the trans* community that had re-written the events of the Stonewall riots, even though this is historically false.

But ultimately what is forgotten is why the police were there. It was not to arrest gay men and women as myth may have you believe, but to arrest those displaying signs of non-gender conformity. It was when the police started removing the arrested individuals from the premises that several individuals began to fight back. One such individuals was the trans* activist Marsha P. Johnson. But here is the thing, trans* inclusive LGBT+ individuals are not arguing for the exclusion of non-trans* white individuals, merely the acknowledgement of others who played a larger roll. The same cannot be said for the anti-trans* crowd.

But it doesn’t just end there. In a follow up interview with The Federalist, the creator of the petition attempts to re-write the identities of Marsha P. Johnson and with it many among the trans* community. They do not match the opinion of the petition creator’s definition of a trans* individual as someone who reassigns and displays no gender variance. Let me introduce you to a great friend of mine. * That is an asterisk. I put it at the end of trans*. Why? Because it denotes a mental footnote which is that the word trans* is utilized as an umbrella term for all gender non-conformity. That is also why his claims that the LGB community expands gender whilst the trans* community reinforces it are entirely without merit.

Back on the petition as well as in the article the creator has one last line of attack. To quote Reverend Lovejoy “Won’t someone think of the children?!” I will admit that I find something like this coming from a gay man particularly distasteful. Being open to gender identity will turn people trans* in the same fashion that being open to sexuality will turn people gay. It won’t. Simple. No child is being reassigned, save for intersex children and there’s growing movement within the trans* to stop this medical violence when surgery is not medically necessary. At most all that are utilized are puberty inhibitors, chemicals that supress the hormones whilst they are taken to give the child anywhere up to several more years to make a better informed decision whether to pursue reassignment.

The trans* community and their allies understand the exploration of gender better than the creator, just like LGB individuals and their allies understand the exploration of sexuality better than the religious and conservative right. No trans* individual has ever forced their child to be trans*, just like no gay person has ever forced their child to be gay. The opposite on the other hand is far from true. If you feel that somehow your faith in humanity has been lost over this entire ordeal, just know this. A counter petition run by both trans* and cisgender LGBT+ and allies has drawn greater support than its hate filled counterpart.