Following the incidents involving online dating websites and the growth of online dating websites and apps we thought it best to put together a post about online safety and just some things to consider when going about online dating.
For the most part going online for love, romance, or sexual liaisons can have a mixture of emotions from excitement to nerves, however it is important that your own personal safety and wellbeing comes first. With so many sites catering to all genders, religions, hobbies and sexualities it might seem like a bit of a daunting task, and with so many people now using these sites you could be fooled into thinking that, “Oh it wouldn’t happen to me” but these things can and do happen.
Below is a list of some “Do’s and Don’ts” for when your meeting someone new, but before that I wanted to touch on a key issue that has become everyone’s bug bare when using online dating…Fake Profiles / Catfishing. For the younger generation, you may know what this is thanks to MTV’s Catfish but for those a bit older let me take a second to explain. Catfishing is where someone is pretending to be someone that they are not through using fake images, pictures or details. Whilst many sites try to remove these profiles and make it harder for catfish (Fake Profiles) to be created some apps like Tinder, Grindr or Her it can be hard to differentiate between who is fake and who in genuine.
- If they seem too good to be true, they could well be.
- Are they asking you for money? Never send any money to anyone, it is likely to be a scam!
- Don’t give out your number straight away! If they are interested they will be wanting to talk to you more and will make that effort.
- Let friends or family know where you are going and when you will be home
- Meet in a public place with lots of people around
- Use your own transportation to get to and from the date
- Watch your alcohol level and don’t leave your drink unattended
- Keep wallet, purse, phone and keys on you
- Contact a friend when the date is over
- Be clear that if you don’t want to do something then you are able to leave a date
The best piece of advice is to use your common sense, if something doesn’t feel right or you are unsure about anything there is no harm in waiting or just saying no. Finally, if something were to happen then be sure to contact the police first to ensure that the person responsible is caught.